Get in Touch With Your Kinky Side: 9 Awesome Tips to Improve Your Love Life

Most people are very closed off sexually. It is not because they do not have any sexual fantasies or even because they are frigid, it is just because they don't know how to express themselves (and aren't in touch with their kinky sides).

If you are one such person, then getting in touch with your kinky side and exploring sexually will be very liberating. It will also be a lot of fun.

This post will offer some good advice for getting in touch with your sexuality and figuring out what turns you on.

Phone Sex

Phone sex is a good way of getting in touch with your kinky side because you can talk about literally anything. The good thing about phone sex is that it's more or less completely anonymous. Because of the anonymity, you have more freedom to talk about things that you ordinarily wouldn't (and really get in touch with your kinky side). Some phone lines are dedicated to specific fetishes, like voyeurism, submission, and even pregnant women. You can learn more about different phone sex fetishes by visiting Phone Sex Lines, a popular phone sex service. Be sure to explore the various categories and find one that's right for you.

Video Chat

Video chat services are a more expensive alternative to phone sex. These services give you an opportunity to actually see the girl that you are talking to and tell her to do things to herself. Video chat can be very enjoyable for this reason. If you don't want a one-on-one experience, then you can just watch a live cam girl. Cam girls are independent pornographic models, many of whom also have accounts on the OnlyFans platform.

Custom Content

OnlyFans is a platform where independent models are able to produce pornographic pictures and videos. On OnlyFans, you can request custom content. The ability to request custom content means that you can ask for more or less anything, no matter how extreme it is. You should be aware that not all girls will be willing to oblige to your requests if they are indeed on the extreme side. You will have to find a model who's open to your fetishes if they aren't already widely popular. In order to get custom content, you will have to be willing to pay big, too.

Group Masturbation

Group masturbation is most people's first foray into group sex. It's something that can be very erotic and that can even lead to very intense sex. The difficult thing with it is actually finding people to masturbate with. If you are not a very social person or if your friends aren't highly sexual, then it's probably not going to be possible to find people, unless you go to a sex club. You can have group masturbation sessions over a webcam, too. If you have any e-friends that are open to that sort of thing, then by all means practice it online.

Orgies

Orgies are the next step after group masturbation if you find that group sex does indeed interest you. The best way to participate in orgies is to go to a sex club or a swinger's club. The former is usually a lot more expensive, and much more exclusive, while the latter is open to everybody, provided you can present a negative STD test. However, before you go ahead and check out an orgy, you might want to try out a threesome first, just so you can build up some confidence. It can be very intense standing in a room with tens of people all having sex. If you have never had any form of group sex, you might buckle under the pressure of it all.

Threesomes

Threesomes are a very popular form of group sex. As their name suggests, they are when three people come together to have sex. More often than not, they involve a couple and then a third person. However, you don't have to be in a couple (or know a couple) to get involved in threesomes. There are actually forums dedicated to threesomes, where people advertise themselves and ask if anybody would be interested in participating in a threesome with them. You could also hire two escorts if you really struggle to find anyone.

Pornography

Pornography is one of the most popular forms of media on the internet. There are hundreds of thousands of models, millions of videos, and myriad categories. If you want to explore your kinky side but you aren't ready to actually get out there and have sex with people yet, then pornography is one of the first things that you should consider. You can explore what you're really into with pornography and find out what turns you on.

Discussion

If you have a partner, and you want to explore your kinky side with them, then you need to discuss it first. You shouldn't rush into anything without their approval or without discussing it with them. If your partner explains that they are not interested in that kind of thing and shuts down your ideas, then you may want to reconsider your relationship. You cannot force your partner to explore with you, but at the same time, they cannot expect you not to embrace your sexuality and find out who you truly are. A relationship should be sexually fulfilling, not oppressive.

Using Toys

Toys are a lot of fun, too. If your partner does decide to explore your sexuality with you (and theirs) then toys can be a very effective way of getting started. There are many different types of sex toys that you can buy, from anal beads to vibrators, and everything in between. A good way to start exploring with your partner is to watch a type of pornography together that's a little different to watch you would typically watch individually, and use sex toys. Make sure that you come up with safe words, and then focus on aftercare afterwards.

If you have, up until this point, been very closed off sexually, then it's time to change that. Following this post's guidance will help you to liberate yourself and change your life. Your sexuality isn't something that you should be ashamed of-- you should embrace it.