The Weinstein Effect: The Meaning Behind

Harvey Weinstein had everything until October 2017. It's funny how something as big as the multimillion career can be destroyed in a blink of an eye. With more than eighty women accusing Harvey Weinstein of sexual misconduct, he can consider himself lucky if he won't get into jail. But let's dig into the reasons behind this fall from the pedestal. It can be blamed on men being unable to understand the real meaning behind women's "yes's" and "no's". And it concerns all men, from big bosses and politicians to those who date women on yesdates.com.

A lot of men tend to believe that when a woman says "yes" she means "no" and vice versa. You may get surprised, but actually "yes" means "yes" and "no" means "no", and if you are unable to understand it, you are most likely to lose your girlfriend or, even worse, see her in the court.

Men like dominating over women, and that's a common fact. In case if you disagree, ask yourself are you happy when women dominate over you? If not, ask yourself why. To justify their own actions, men often come up with stories that women like to be harassed and even raped from time to time. Maybe some women enjoy being 'raped' and 'harassed' when it comes to role-playing, but rape and harassment is something unlikely to be enjoyable. No one enjoys being raped or harassed.

Some men try to win a girl's heart by showing how powerful they are regarding everything from their physical power to power in the certain industry. If you think that's the right idea, you are a total loser. And we can explain you why. Those men who try luring women with their power end up complaining that women are using either them or their positions. You probably want your lady to love you for who you are, and not for your muscles or your bank account. And, believe it or not, a lot of women would prefer to spend the rest of their lives with that guy who slapped Harvey Weinstein in that Arizona restaurant, rather with some powerful and abusive coward.

Of course, you may say that no one pays attention to women being cruel to men. Some actors, like Matt Damon and Kit Harington, tried to bring the topic of men in film industry being sexually harassed by women. Needless to say that those attempts failed miserably, as, until enough is going to be said and done about women being harassed by men, men being harassed by women will stay out of the spotlight. Because, unless men are unable to understand the meaning behind women's "no", women are not obliged to understand men's "no".